Signs from the Universe - finding my true path

Read my story of overcoming struggles, roadblocks, and the powerful signs from the universe that led me to the path I’m meant to be on. Trusting the journey has brought me exactly where I’m meant to be.

Throughout my life, I felt I was never enough. I worked tirelessly to prove my worth, striving for what seemed like the ideal life—a good career, a husband, a child, and the stability that society often defines as “success.” But in hindsight, I realised I was never truly made for the “regular life.” My journey was meant to be different, and in my most challenging moments, the universe sent signs to help me see beyond this conventional path and discover who I truly am.

Signs on the Path to Teaching

One of my earliest experiences with signs came on the path to becoming a teacher. I had left a secure, full-time job to start a teacher training course, which I thought was the natural ‘next step’ for me, only to find out that the course I was enrolled in was incorrect and wouldn’t qualify me to teach in schools. After a long and frustrating battle with the university, they finally corrected their error. Despite the rough start, I continued, throwing myself into teaching and constantly trying to prove my worth. The profession drained my energy and dimmed my spark, yet I kept going, ignoring the voice inside that quietly questioned if this was truly my path.

After taking a break from teaching, I decided to give it another try and secured a full-time position. But just a weekend before I was due to start, I had a sudden accident—I fell, broke my arm, and split my eye open. This was a sign so unmistakable that I had no choice but to pause and reflect. It felt like the universe was putting up a roadblock, asking me to consider if this was truly the life I was meant for.

A Mysterious Sign: The Smell of Incense

Another sign came during a particularly low day in the teaching profession. Sitting alone in the classroom, feeling down and uncertain, I was suddenly surrounded by a strong smell of incense. The scent was so unexpected and intense that it startled me. I quickly packed up and left, but the experience stayed with me. I now wonder if it was a comforting presence, a gentle nudge from the universe offering me a sign that I wasn’t truly alone, or perhaps even a reminder that it was time to move on.

Signs During a Time of Heartbreak

My most profound experience with signs, however, came during the painful separation from my husband. I fought hard for my marriage, believing that without it, my life had no worth. The emotional toll was unlike anything I had ever known—a pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone. When my husband returned our family car without hesitation, I felt devastated, sensing that he no longer cared. Heartbroken, I got into the car with tears streaming down my face. I turned on the ignition, and the radio played the words, “I needed to lose you to love me.” The timing was surreal; those words felt like a message crafted specifically for me.

As much as I hadn’t wanted to let go, I realised this relationship had been stifling me and my growth. I had lost myself in trying to be what others wanted, and my own spark had faded. It was as if the universe was gently telling me that although this path hurt, it was leading me back to myself.

Around the same time, I noticed ladybirds appearing in the most unexpected places—in my car, the shower, even on candles. This happened during winter, a time when ladybirds are rare, but they surrounded me. Later, I learned ladybirds are considered signs to count one’s blessings, a reminder from the universe that even in pain, there was gratitude to be found.

Moving Beyond the “Regular Life” and Embracing My True Path

Reflecting on these experiences, I see now that I was always chasing a life that didn’t truly align with who I am. For so long, I pursued the “regular life,” thinking it would finally make me feel enough. But these signs from the universe revealed that my path was meant to be unique—not focused on conventional success, but on self-discovery, healing, and a deeper connection to my spirit.

The Synchronicity of Peppermint

After struggling with life’s battles for so long, there was one beautiful moment of synchronicity that confirmed I was finally aligning with my purpose: the opening of the well-being studio we all know and love as Peppermint. Unlike past struggles, this dream came together with ease, as though the universe was guiding each step, opening doors, and aligning everything perfectly. Peppermint, though it has its own challenges, is different—these are struggles I embrace and have the energy for. It feels like everything I’ve learned, all the courses I’ve taken, have come together to create a truly holistic, supportive space for my clients. Peppermint is a place where everyone feels safe, seen, and supported.

Sometimes, I imagine if I had gotten the life I thought I wanted. It would’ve been a life of constantly striving to fit a mold that wasn’t meant for me. Instead, Peppermint is a place that lets me serve others in a genuine way and live a life that feels aligned with my true self.

Trusting the Journey Forward

Now, I view signs as gentle invitations from the universe to embrace who I truly am. They’ve shown me that my life, even if it looks different from the “regular life,” is exactly where I’m meant to be. These experiences have helped me reclaim my own light, guiding me to a path that feels genuine and aligned. And perhaps, most importantly, they’ve taught me that I am enough, just as I am.

Do you believe in signs from the universe?

I hope, if you’re reading this, it offers some comfort or inspiration.

Love always,

Michelle xxx